Dude, being head ref is a bitch. For those of you not familiar with our league functioning, head ref is a position the same as any other position during a bout. It is not status symbol or indication of power within our league.
That being said, when you are head ref during a bout/scrimmage, you are running the inside crew with the penalty calling crew. Everyone is doing their jobs and you are keeping things flowing. When people are not doing their jobs you give direction to keep things flowing.
Needless to say nobody ever is "at fault" for their mistakes. It's always someone else's fault. Whatever. So annoying.
Fortunately though, when I'm running the crew, I get a lot of say of how things run. So suck it up and do it your own way when you are head reffing.
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